Is zygo reduction always a bad idea for men

They are mainly preformed for Korean females and some Korean males that want a softer look, but for me, my zygos protrude too far horizontally which gives me a low esr. Everything else about my inner face is ideal, but because my zygos are just a bit too wide it throws off everything. For now I just cover them with hair, but I’m thinking of getting them reduced, I’m just scared they will look feminine and soft after, and descends me overall. I want to keep the same angular shape, just the raw width of my zygomatic width itself I want reduced slightly, is that even possible to do?

I am already lean and I have longer hair, not sure what else to do for my wide skull