There’s nothing easy about giving up

In my experience when Ive “given up” it’s acknowledging my flaws and realising no matter how much effort or hard work I put in, I’ll get nothing in return. Consider yourself lucky if you’re tall, rich, attractive, have friends or have a good relationship with someone or family. This relates to my other posts but everything I listed is for the most part genetics. Before some idealistic comments “just work on yourself bro” I’ve tried to, multiple times. And all of those times I’ve realised that I’m the problem. Giving up is realising that you can’t do something which is harder to swallow then just tirelessly working at it, without any results. Connecting one of my previous posts to this one, I’ve said that some people were ment to lose. This is a perfect example of what I mean. Almost everyone who comments on my posts thinks that by just working on myself and trying harder is the solution, and acting like I’ve given it no effort and haven’t thought about it whatsoever. I do want to mention that putting in hard work can workout for SOME people. But when u have quite literally no attractive qualities about yourself its pointless to “work hard” the life I’ve lived up until now has shown me that I’m useless and nothing I will ever do will change that. It’s not like I wanted to turn out this way, this is quite literally the worst possibly scenario for most people.