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Dude how do I ask I girl out
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Im 17 years old and I’ve never had a girlfriend or even a talking stage. When I was younger I always just told myself that the reason I didn’t speak to any girls is because I didn’t want to, and if I did I could easily find a girlfriend, but now, at this point of my life, Im starting to feel completely helpless. Although im not a top 1% face, im by no means unattractive, and honestly above average, yet no girls ever approach me or look my direction.
Aside from that, I’m not really able to connect with people easily. Excluding family, I can only think one girl who I really like, but I don’t see her often, and although sometimes I feel like it is, im still not anywhere near sure if the feelings mutual. Even if I knew it is, I don’t think I would do anything with it. I wouldn’t even know where to start.
I honestly think I just spent too long being a weirdo in high school that I should just write this chapter of my life off, and hope I can do better in university. it’s starting to feel like if I don’t find someone in my first few years after high school, I never will. If nothing changes, I honestly don’t see myself ever getting married and starting a family.
1)Sexual market value - not just face but also things like height, frame, money, social circle/status… 2)Shooting your shot - I know it’s uncomfortable, but as you do it more and more it get’s more natural to a point where you don’t even think about it. 3)Getting a girlfriend is in my opinion all about improving you smv and just meeting/talking to new girls regurlarly.
"Aside from that, I’m not really able to connect with people easily." Try learning how to fake being neurotypical, you might actually be getting some choosing signals but not realizing it.
hogMar 25I guess so. How do you think I should go about this?
I'm trying to pay attention how people interact with each other, also watching related content on yt. Still as autistic as I was before but I feel like I started to understand normal people better past few months.
2zactMar 25look man coming from someone who’s not that attractive you just have to fake confidence man i mean thats atleast what i did you deadass have to larp your way into being appealing to girls and have a outgoing personality you look good and have great hight its not that your unattractive or unappealing it’s just that girls aren’t going to magically come to you, YOU have to make the first move you hav…
hogMar 25Dude I don’t know what the first move would be, not even trying to be stupid rn
2zactMar 25find the right girl your like think with your heart not your head sneak glances till she notices,make small talk,break the touch barrier,it’s even okay to start as a friend man you don’t have to rush value yourself bro your 17 good looking and have great potential don’t waste it on a bop find the right special one for you man
2zactMar 25listen to her make her feel valued and heard ask for her instagram or phone number, be confident, your the man YOU have to lead that’s what girls like wanna play a date? give her a date and time be confident and in control you got this bro
when it comes to talking to women you need to learn and understand how to spike different neurotransmitters in there brain to get there attention and also keep them interested. they are very simple creatures that basically only live of their emotions. once you realize that most ,not all, women are just grown up children they become a lot easier to talk to.
I def think that you are overthinking, you can def do better in uni. You are very unconfident, you should definitely boost it and improve your looks if you think that you are nit that good looking to get a girl and all
Idk man. I have more to talk about im gonna make another reply in a little bit, I feel like there’s more I didn’t touch up on
DivMar 25No worries man, trust me you are very unconfident, you should def man up and approach some ladies even with the intention of friendship
DivMar 25No worries man dw
Anyways, I think there’s two main things kinda holding me back from finding someone. First of all, it just feels like since ive been alone so long this is just how it’s meant to be, and it’s hard to imagine myself actually finding a girl. It feels like it’s so comically out of character for me that it’s not possible. Also, ive had pretty bad experiences in the past with girls. Looking back at my l…
DivMar 26Bro, you just need to invest into your personality atp, you make yourself look like a simp and a loser which women hate the most,you have your own value and embrace that. You probably came off as weird to most of em and the truth is that they are not wrong whatsoever. And you also need some new friends istg, using skincare is nit gay in any way,shape or form so you should def find some new friends…
DivMar 26Bro, you just need to invest into your personality atp, you make yourself look like a simp and a loser which women hate the most,you have your own value and embrace that. You probably came off as weird to most of em and the truth is that they are not wrong whatsoever. And you also need some new friends istg, using skincare is nit gay in any way,shape or form so you should def find some new friends…
IblameRhodaMar 25How tall are you? That should answer your question
6 foot 1
Okay I can maybe give you some tips as a woman myself. Idk how you know her but if it’s any school or work setting you can start asking her for simple favors. Sorry What time is it? Do you have a piece of gum? Ect. Then you could try interacting with her slowly like greeting her while walking by asking her name or what she’s doing. If shr does like you she would return the favor. Hopefully u can g…