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experience of my dating life
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(My english is bad, so don't blame my grammar)
Ever since I was a kid, I've never had any problems with anyone, and girls generally thought I was cute, but that changed drastically from one year to the next.
All it began at the middle school, I had a crush on a girl and I wanted to tell her how much I love her. But my biggest surprise was seeing her face literally fall apart right there; she started crying and complaining to her friends, at the time, I didn't really understand why she reacted that way but unfortunately, I didn't realize it until much later.
Ever since that day, I've started to notice how the girls behave toward me, for example, the fact that whenever a teacher asked us to work together, she would start begging him to choose someone else or their looks of disgust or mockery.
As far as I can remember, even the “weird” girls at school looked at me with disgust; I don't think any of the girls were nice to me, or if they were, it was only to get something in return (for example, one girl befriended me just so she can pull my Chad friend).
After all that, in 2022, while scrolling through TikTok, I saw some edits of chico and jordan with the tag "looksmaxxing" and "bp" , and after that some edits of kshami pointing to various charts on the board and explaining the ideology of bp and I realised my whole life has been, is, and will be a series of failures because of things I can't control.
I've given up on the idea that I'll ever have a girlfriend.
Thanks you for reading that
cenoMar 26Gym max and get so huge nobody cares about your looks...or surgeries ....but they are more expensive then steroids
Luka141Mar 26No, being huge without having a matching face looks like you are trying to compensate so badly, especially if you have a bad frame. You don’t want to look like a gymcel
ianMar 27agreed Ceno's take is low iq if your goal is female apeal, ofc go to the gym but dont make it your personlaity its just a pillar of your smv
Sorry to hear that bro, you should def work on yourself, don't let go of this opportunity
b2222Mar 26Don’t give up on the idea and there are plenty of other things that can contribute to a successful life and for getting girls it’s never over. I would suggest idd your last photo that you begin to eat healthier and going to gym more often or atleast getting some sun
I'm sorry brother. I recommend finding healthy coping strategies so you don't spiral down to drug addiction or something worse.
mirin the er pfp boyo