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Some people were ment to lose
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I’m mainly talking about myself here, but I know some people were ment to lose in life. My whole life has Cleary shown me that I’ve been a failure and will continue to be a failure. For any people thinking that I’m being hard on myself or having a “bad mindset” you dont know what it’s like to be me. I’m genuinely good at nothing, I’m quite literally a waste of space. It’s hard to know that I’m ugly, and have nothing good about me but that’s just the cards I was delt with and there’s nothing I can do about it. I was ment to lose in life my parents made it clear to me at a very young age that I was good at nothing, and would always be out shined by my older brother and they were right.
yeglazerMar 26It’s not by complaining all the time that your life sucs that it’s going to help you. My life sucs too, and I have to wake up at 8 a.m. every morning to go to school, with my own problems. But instead of wasting your time feeling sorry for yourself, focus on things that will actually help you: making money, eating well, spending quality time with family, helping others.
jackMar 26Again, not feeling sorry for my self it’s a general analysis on my life. Ur assuming I have a good family, access to good food, and have friends to “help” you do a lot of assuming and not a lot of thinking.
these a natural hierarchy, unfortunately, and if some people are “meant to lose”, then it not your fault.
You said that you’re not good at anything. Lots of skills have to be learned and trained. Maybe you could start a sport like Jiu-Jitsu, or rock climbing that doesn’t require you to be 6’5, and jacked it just requires a lot of time and dedication.
If you started a sport or hobby like I’m talking about maybe you could join that community and make friends there
4ugm3nt3dMar 21I have a bit of a different perspective than everyone else here. You can absolutely fail at life and have it not be your fault. Some people are winners, some are losers, and some are stepping stones. Someone else has said this, but no one really cares dude. The only reason one would publicly post this complaint is becausd they would want others to care. It's unfortuntely not going to happen. What…
jackMar 21It’s not for people to care it’s just to vent. I’ve had no one to actually talk to about this irl so I thought it would be good to talk about it here as I can stay anonymous and not have people bug me about it. Feel free to think what u want to think about it tho
Its easy to think this way, and maybe youre right. But would you rather live a life where you dont do anything and do indeed become a waste of space, or keep trying at everything you can until something works and you get something out of it? If you think you are going to lose there is no chance you will win.
i think we all want results but never tend to take the risk and stick with a thing or 2 we actually like that would impact after a long period of time, maybe we all r never meant to be chads, 6ft 4, rich, smart and playboys, but still just because we werent meant to be at the top doesnt force us to stay at our lvl, maxing out ur potential, and living a happy life without comparisons with top 0.1 p…
jackMar 21Glad that’s what you think abt it, all the best
itzrqfMar 20I’ve seen ur face bro ur not “ugly” ur just an avg mid mtn not handsome not ugly stop posting this depressing nonsense and if you’re good at nothing go outside and get good at SOMETHING
jackMar 20You haven’t even seen my face I haven’t posted it anywhere so that’s a lie. It’s not depressing nonsense it’s what I’ve felt like my whole life. Your acting like I haven’t already tried for many years to get good at something.
itzrqfMar 22Oh mb thought I were someone else, u should post your face for advice
Quit posting depressing posts, no one really cares, and you're being a drama queen. Theres a reason sub5s have always existed, and will continue to exist. Bc you can still have a good life despite that, everyones able to succeed and have a family. Think of it like weight classes in martial arts, just bc you're in a lower weight class doesnt make you worse, doesnt mean you're unable to compete. You…
jackMar 20If you don’t like my posts get off of them I realise nobody cares that’s why I’ve came here to express what I’ve felt for my whole life ur thing about martial arts still implies that you would have some kind of skill to get to that point. I dont have anything good about me. And it’s not me being a “drama queen” it’s me taking an objective analysis of my life and realising what people have told me.…
don’t know you, but I can tell this isn’t who you actually are . it’s what you’ve been made to believe over time. When someone hears for years that they’re not good enough, especially from people who were supposed to support them, it doesn’t just hurt ... .. .it changes how they see themselves. It starts to feel like truth, even when it’s not. Being told you’r…
jackMar 20Appreciate it but I don’t believe in god, I have nobody around me that likes me I had one friend in highschool who ended up getting really sick and dying and even then I heard that even he didn’t like me. when it’s people all around from different backgrounds like teachers, parents, friends, employers telling you the exact same thing you kinda have to find the common theme about what there saying…
moinulMar 21hear you. And honestly, I’m not gonna try to argue with you or throw some fake positivity at you. If that many experiences piled up like that, of course it’s going to feel real to you. ........ ....... But there’s one thing I want to push back on not aggressively, just honestly. You said when many people say the same thing, you have to be the probl…
What your parents said doesn’t matter at all. The most you can do is focus on getting better no matter the difficulty. And always remember that “You are whoever you think you are”
The thing is that you control your life, you should work on yourself and make better friends. Ignore your parent's bs opinions and focus on yourself. Maybe go to the gym or get a job. The thing is that the only person who can change your life is you yourself and no one else so you better start now.